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Pay Friends Just Got Friendlier

Today, we’re excited to announce that you can now use our Pay Friends feature to instantly send money to anyone, even if they’re not a Chime Member! Now it’s even easier to square up the rent with your roomie or split that last round of drinks with your BFF. All you need is their phone number or email address. 

At Chime, we work every day to find more ways to simplify your finances so that you can manage all of your expenses in one place. We hope this new Pay Friends update makes your life a little bit easier by eliminating the hassle of dealing with cash or checks. 

Why Choose Chime Pay Friends vs. Other P2P Payment Apps

Nowadays, splitting the bill is as easy as sending money through your phone. In fact, 49% of millennials and 44% of Gen Xers now prefer digital payments to cash, which has given rise to many very popular peer-to-peer payment apps (P2P). Here at Chime, we’ve processed over 3.2 million Pay Friends transactions to date. That’s approximately $237 million dollars sent back and forth between friends and family; $30 million of those were just in the last month. It probably makes you wonder, what makes Chime’s Pay Friends so different?

The main difference between Pay Friends and other P2P apps is that Pay Friends is connected to your Chime Spending Account so you’ll have instant access to spend it with your Chime Visa® Debit Card. 

Here are 3 reasons to use Pay Friends vs. other P2P apps:

  • Money is deposited into your account instantly for transfers between Chime Members.
  • No need to cash out or wait for days for funds to arrive in your bank account.
  • Chime will never charge you hidden fees to make a mobile P2P transfer or to access the funds from the transfer. Many P2P platforms charge a fee to get your money instantly. Fees can range from a flat fee of .25 cents to 1.5% of the total amount. 
  • If you pay a friend who is not a Chime member already, you are both eligible to receive a $50 referral bonus when they set up and receive a direct deposit of $200 or more within 45 days of opening a Spending Account.* 

How to Start Paying More Friends

  1. Just log in to your Chime app and tap ‘Pay Friends’.
  2. Input your friend’s information or select them from your contacts.
  3. Send them the amount you owe.

Piece of cake, right? 🍰Your friend will receive a message with directions on how to sign up for a Chime Spending Account and claim their cash if they don’t have a Chime Spending Account**.

Who knows, you just might become better friends afterwards.

(Pay Friends Infograph Here – submitted separately see Infographic – Pay Friends)


*In order for both parties (the referred friend and the referring Chime member) to qualify for and receive the $50.00 referral reward, the following conditions must be met: the referred friend must open a new Chime Spending Account using the referring Chime member’s unique referral link after June 1, 2008 and receive a payroll direct deposit of $200.00 or within 45 days from when the Chime Spending Account was opened. The payroll direct deposit of the referred friends must be made by their employer, payroll provider or payer by an ACH deposit.  Bank ACH transfer, Pay Friends transfers, verification or trial deposits from financial institutions, transfers from PayPal or Venmo, mobile check deposits, and cash loads or deposits do not qualify as a payroll direct deposit. Referring Chime member must be part of the $50.00 for Payroll Direct Deposit referral reward campaign in order for both parties to be eligible for the $50.00 referral reward. The referral reward per calendar year (January 1, 2018 – December 31, 2018). Referred friend acknowledges that payment of the referral reward may result in the referring Chime member’s knowledge of you establishing an account with us. Chime reserves the right to cancel or modify the referral reward terms or terminate the member’s eligibility, at any time with or without prior notice.  This offer is neither sponsored nor endorsed by The Bancorp Bank. Credits of $10 or more must be reported on tax form 1099-INT. Each eligible referring Chime member may earn no more than $500.00 in referral rewards per calendar year (January 1, 2018 – December 41, 2018).

**In order to complete the payment, the non-Chime member must apply and be approved for a Chime Spending Account within fourteen (14) days to complete the transfer and access the transferred funds. If the non-Chime member does not apply and get approved for a Chime Spending Account within fourteen (14) days of initiating the payment, then the payment will be cancelled, and the Friend Transfer dollar amount will be returned to the existing Chime member’s Chime Spending Account.

Pay Friends and any transfers made with Pay Friends are subject to the Deposit Account Agreement.


Budgeting for Summer Vacation

School bells are ringing for the last time this school year. Kids and their families are looking forward to a great summer season filled with warm weather, fun activities, and maybe even a vacation. But that summer vacation may be more expensive than many can afford.

Recent data from Bankrate shows that nearly one-quarter of Americans will skip a vacation this summer due to financial reasons, while roughly another quarter are skipping out due to a demanding work schedule and other family obligations. If you do want to make a summer vacation a reality, it is important to focus on your budget to make it happen.

The cost of a summer vacation

Vacations are not cheap, but they don’t have to cost so much they are not attainable. If you want to take your family of four on a vacation, you’ll spend around $1,000 to $5,000 depending on your accommodations, travel, meals, and activities. But keep in mind you have a lot of control here.

A summer road trip is one of the cheaper ways to get out of town. If you bring a cooler and plan out meals, camp some of the time, only pick hotels with free breakfast, and stick with lower cost attractions, you can enjoy a trip filled with wonderful memories on a tight budget. Depending on your destination and planning, this could easily come in below a $1,000 total cost.

Taking the family to Hawaii or Europe, on the other hand, is rarely an inexpensive proposition. You can expect expensive airfare, hotels, and food to easily surpass $1,000 per traveler depending on how long you travel and the quality of accommodations.

If you live paycheck to paycheck, coming up with even $100 for a home repair is a struggle, let alone $4,000 to take the family to Europe. But money isn’t the only thing holding people back from vacations.

Competing priorities

The Bankrate data said that among those skipping the summer vacation, half said money is the main factor. But for 25%, family responsibilities were the contributing factor. Another 22% can’t take time off from work.

While many employers offer paid time off, a huge number of employees skip taking those days or leave a large number unused. A study from Glassdoor found that half of vacation days go unused and two-thirds of Americans work while on vacation anyway.

For entrepreneurs like us, getting away may be a pipedream. Do as much as possible ahead of time so you can avoid plugging in while away. And putting a vacation auto-away message on can help you avoid the guilt of not responding to emails quickly while away.

Create an automatic vacation savings fund

If you do want to take a vacation but find money is holding you back, consider creating a dedicated vacation savings account. You can put cash in from your direct deposit or a recurring transfer from checking without even thinking about it!

To take it a step further, consider apps like Qapital that can help you put money away on a schedule or based on some fun, automated actions. A few months ago I put $1 into my savings fund every time Donald Trump put out a new message on Twitter, as an example of what is possible for automatic savings.

This can be a simple setup or something more complex. It’s up to you to decide the best path to success.

Don’t forget travel hacking

If you want to supercharge your travel opportunities without going crazy on costs, remember that you can earn valuable miles and points for travel rewards from your credit cards and other sources.

I started travel hacking nearly a decade ago, and it has brought me huge rewards. I’ve been able to visit England, France, Holland, Spain, Portugal, Gibraltar, Canada, Israel, and destinations all over the United States for pennies on the dollar. For example, a few years ago I took my then girlfriend (now wife) to my cousin’s wedding near Tel Aviv. We paid about $150 each round-trip for our flights.

I just booked a July 4th trip to visit my family in Denver, also with miles and points. Flights for three of us plus a lap child cost about $33 out-of-pocket. About two weeks later I’m off on a solo trip to Chicago and Philadelphia for an all-in cash cost of less than $20.

Make your dream vacation a reality

Vacations are an amazing way to see the world and spend time with the people you love most, but don’t let the cost keep you from going or send you into debt. By using smart budgeting and travel hacking techniques, your affordable vacation may be just around the corner.

This article originally appeared on Due.com.


How to Plan a Wedding Without Your Bridal Party Going Broke

When I got engaged in 2016, I knew I didn’t want our best friends’ budgets to suffer as a result. I decided to get creative and keep costs as low as possible for my bridal party. Here’s what I learned: With a little bit of research and the ability to think outside the box, the costs for a bridal party member can significantly shrink.

It’s expensive to plan a wedding. It’s also expensive to attend one. Millennials spend an average of $1,532 per destination bachelor party and $1,106 per bachelorette, according to a study by The Knot, a wedding website, and that’s not even for their own wedding — it’s for their friends’ big days. The worst part? Even if the bride and groom plan to keep the party local, bachelor and bachelorette parties are only the beginning. With gifts, wedding day travel expenses, attire and lodging, most bridesmaids spend close to $1,200 per wedding.

As a result of careful and creative planning, most of our bridesmaids and groomsmen spent less than $400 each.

Here’s how we made it happen.

Dresses: $60

Bridesmaid dresses can vary in price, but they typically cost between $100 and $300. To avoid the hefty price tag normally associated with bridesmaids attire, I got creative. I knew I wanted my bridesmaids in long, flowing dresses, but I also knew I didn’t feel comfortable asking my friends to pay $100 or more for a dress for my wedding. The solution? Amazon. I found the exact dresses I wanted on Amazon for a fraction of the price. I selected the color and had my bridesmaids choose the style. The dresses ranged from $40 to $100, and most of my bridesmaids selected dresses that rang in at $60. With free shipping and free returns, the process was simple and quick.

Genius tip: If you can’t find what you’re looking for on Amazon, experiment with bridesmaid dress rentals. Websites like Rent the Runway and Union Station offer dress rentals that start at $50.

Bachelorette Party: $75 to $250

Instead of hopping on a plane or partying for an entire weekend, I decided to keep the bachelorette local and short. Here’s what the day entailed and how much it cost each person: bottomless mimosa brunch ($25), poolside cabana at a local casino resort ($25), downtown dinner ($25). We didn’t splurge on a hotel room or rent a house for the weekend. Instead, we spent the day by the pool at a local casino. The best part? It had a lazy river, three pools and a delicious bottomless mimosa brunch. After the day ended, we drove home, got ready and went to our favorite local restaurant for dinner. It was the perfect end to a fun-filled day with my favorite people.

Three friends traveled from out of town. Only two of those friends had to get on a plane. The price of their flight was $100 round-trip. Once they arrived, they spent the night at our apartment to keep costs down.

Genius tip: Change your perspective and get creative. There’s a good chance brides and grooms from other cities in America travel to your city for their parties. Instead of daydreaming about an expensive and time-consuming trip to a new city, come up with locations for a local party. When I first thought of my bachelorette, I wanted to spend a weekend in Las Vegas, but once I got clear about the parts of Las Vegas I love — bottomless brunches, pool parties, lazy rivers and good food — I realized I didn’t have to travel to a different state to experience them.

Registry gifts: $6 to $100

Wedding registries are fun to create. You walk around the store and scan items you like. The most exciting part? There’s no limit. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of putting together your wedding registry, but it’s more exciting to choose items you’ll actually use.

Before you make your registry and get caught up in the excitement of scanning items or clicking “add” on a website, look at what you already have in your home. When my fiance and I looked at what we had, we realized we needed to replace some basic items we had purchased when we were broke college students. We didn’t need super fancy skillets. We needed plates that weren’t chipped. But even if you do need or want expensive items, it’s important to have less expensive items on your registry as well. The cheapest item on our registry was also one of my favorites: a kitchen towel with a cat on it. The cost? $6.

Despite our best efforts, some wedding costs, like flights and lodging, couldn’t be lowered. Here’s the truth: If members of your wedding party have to travel for the wedding, it’s going to significantly increase their costs. Though we couldn’t help our out-of-town bridal party members secure lower plane tickets or hotel rates, it was nice to know we had done everything we could to be respectful of their time and money.

This article originally appeared on Policygenius


How to Attend Weddings Without Going Broke

There’s nothing better than knowing your friend has found his or her perfect match. On the other hand, attending the happy couple’s wedding may be costly.

Weddings are notoriously expensive to attend—on average guests spend $177 on gifts and if travel is involved, the cost can skyrocket to upwards of $700. But, here’s the good news: attending your friends’ nuptials doesn’t have to break the bank. With a little creativity and a bit of planning, you’ll be able to attend weddings without worrying about whether you’ll also be able to pay your bills that month.

Here are 5 tips for how to budget for wedding season:

1. Be Picky

There will come a time in your life when it seems like everyone you know is getting married. If your refrigerator is plastered with “save the date” cards, then you’ve entered probably entered this phase of life.

It’s important to remember that this won’t last forever. At the same time, you’ll have to be picky in order to get through the wedding onslaught without going broke. Yup, you’ll need to turn some of those invites down.

When evaluating which weddings to attend, be sure to remember that it’s okay to put your own needs first. For Julia Layton, a 33-year-old YouTuber in Chicago who is documenting her journey out of $132,000 of debt, carefully choosing which weddings to attend has been critical to her debt repayment success.

“The biggest lesson I learned was that I can’t make everyone happy and I need to be my own biggest advocate, especially where my finances are concerned. I’ve stopped going to destination weddings and I also only attend weddings for family and very close friends,” says Layton.

If you know that you can’t attend every wedding, you may need to prioritize – starting with your closest friends and family. For example, if your sister is getting married this year and you can only afford to attend one wedding, then you may have to decline the invitation from that college friend who you haven’t spoken to since graduation.

2. Set an Annual Budget

Budgets sometimes get a bad rap, but when done correctly, budgets create room for more freedom, not less. The best way to prepare for the cost of weddings is to set aside a little bit of money from your paycheck every month. It’s much more difficult to take the $700 required to attend a destination wedding from a single paycheck than it is to save $58 every month for one year.

Follow these steps to create your wedding budget:

  1. Determine how many weddings you will attend each year. If you’re unsure, pick a realistic number, like two.
  2. Figure out if the weddings are likely to be local. It’s much easier to cut costs for local weddings than it is for out-of-town weddings. For destination weddings, budget about $700 per wedding. For local weddings, budget about $200.
  3. Add up your budget and divide it by 12. If you plan to attend one destination wedding and one local wedding in the upcoming year, you would need to save $900, or about $75 per month.
  4. If you end up coming in under budget or not attending as many weddings as planned, you can save the money for next year’s wedding season.

Here’s the good news: it’s never too late to start saving. Even if you have a destination wedding to attend in two months and haven’t saved a dime, you still have two months to prepare, which is infinitely better than no time at all.

3. Get Creative with the Gift

Most guests spend about $200 per wedding gift. Even though it’s nice to be generous, it’s also important to be realistic.

Being realistic doesn’t mean you can’t buy items from the registry, says Rachel Smith, a 24-year old money blogger from Michigan. It simply means that you need to be strategic.

“Stalk their registry. No, seriously. Figure out where they are registered ASAP and make sure to check those websites frequently for coupon codes and flash deals. I have saved between 25 to 35 percent each time doing this, and it’s still the items the couples actually picked out,” says Smith.

If items on the registry are out of your price range, then get creative with the gift and give something meaningful like matching coffee mugs, monogrammed hand towels or a decorative frame with their new last name.

4. Buy One Wedding Outfit (and Wear it Again)

Wedding attire may not sound like a big expense, but wedding guests tend to spend an average of $81 on clothing for each wedding they attend.

Instead, try buying one outfit you love and then wear it again and again. To get the most bang for your buck, be sure to buy an an outfit with solid colors. Solid colored clothing ensures that you can mix and match shoes and accessories to create entirely different looks.

5. Missing the Big Day? Send a Gift or Plan a Post-Wedding Dinner

Whether you miss the big day because of scheduling conflicts or financial constraints, don’t fret. The best thing to do is send a card and gift. The size of the gift depends on your relationship with the bride and groom.

“If you are close but can’t attend the wedding, get a gift that would include some of the costs you’d spend to attend—meaning actually spend a little more (that you would if you aren’t that close to the couple),” says Smith.

If you live in the same city as the couple, you can perhaps plan a celebratory post-wedding dinner. The bride and groom will get to fill you in on all of the details and you’ll be able to celebrate the milestone with them. It’s a win-win.

Remember: Your Budget and Friendships are Bigger than a Single Day

Weddings are exciting, but they are only one day. If you can’t attend the celebration or simply don’t have room in your budget, it’s not the end of the world. Your financial health is more important than a single day and so is your friendship with the bride or groom.


I Tracked My Spending for a Week. Here’s What Happened

I’m not great at tracking my spending. As someone who rebels against rules and hates feeling confined by regulations, being told to track my spending felt unpleasant. It seemed like yet another task to add to my to-do list: Brush my teeth, work out, drink water, sleep enough, look at my phone less and track my money.

But I kept hearing about the magic of tracking. There were so many stories of people saving money and finding spending leaks that I decided to try. I wanted to know if it could help my finances.

Over the course of one week, I tracked everything from the coffee I drank to the books I ordered on Amazon. I’m surprised by what I learned.

Groceries don’t always save money

In one week, I spent $120 on groceries. Considering I rarely eat out, that might not sound too bad. After all, cooking at home is supposed to save money. But the truth about my grocery bill is that it was the result of impulse purchases and haphazard planning. As I passed the produce section in Costco, I grabbed a bag of fresh snap peas on a whim and scooped up a package of pomegranate seeds seconds later. On my way to the checkout line, I stopped for a 24-pack of protein bars “just in case” and got a bag of tortilla chips for good measure. The problem? None of these items were on my list, and at a place like Costco, each additional item can add $10 to $15 to your total.

The fix: As I reviewed my grocery spending for the week, it became clear I viewed my grocery list as a set of guidelines. After seeing the numbers on paper and facing the reality of my impulse grabs, I’ve begun to think of my grocery list as a set of rules. If it’s not on the list, it doesn’t enter my cart. It’s as simple (and difficult) as that.

Hanging with friends adds up

Over the course of one week, I went for lunch with former colleagues, grabbed coffee with three different friends, bought frozen yogurt with my wife and ate sushi with my sister. The total? $35. It might not seem like a lot, but for one week, it’s a big chunk of change. Grabbing coffee always seemed like an inexpensive way to see my friends and catch up, but after realizing I spent $10 on coffee in one week, it became clear I underestimated the financial impact. Over the course of one month, I’m on track to spend $40 on coffee. That’s nearly half the price of the massage, which is a luxury I’ve told myself I can’t afford. Looking at the numbers in black and white, it’s clear I could afford a massage every other month if I simply stopped spending money on coffee.

The fix: Never hanging out with friends isn’t an option. Neither is cutting out lunch dates with friends and family. But $35 per week on coffee and lunch doesn’t align with my priorities. I knew something needed to change. Instead of using the coffee shop as the default place to meet, I’ve gotten creative. This past week, I had my sister over for homemade banana bread and invited a friend on a walk to catch up. The cost? Less than $2. They may seem like small changes, but it wasn’t until I actually looked at the numbers that I realized these “small” expenses equaled $140 per month.

Online shopping is convenient. Too convenient

Overall, I’m happy with my shopping budget and the $38 I spent on “extra” items during the week. I bought replacement fairy lights for the living room for $10 and two books from Amazon from $28. All my purchases were intentional and mindful. The lights are replacing an item that broke. The books are ones I’ve already borrowed from the library and know I want to own so I can read them again and again. But as I looked over my purchases, I realized how easy it is to shop online without paying attention.

The fix: I’m normally pretty good at controlling my urge to shop, but there are times I find myself scrolling through the Amazon app or browsing ASOS with no intent to buy. To avoid the temptation, I’ve deleted the apps from my phone and no longer store credit card information on my laptop. One-click shopping makes spending a little too convenient. Creating barriers is an easy way to make it less enticing.

For the first day or two, it was annoying to track my spending. But once I got into the habit, it became second nature to make a note of my spending. Even though I don’t plan to track my spending all the time, I do plan to use it as a financial tune-up every few months. It’s easy for spending to become mindless. Tracking is a simple way to ensure the reality of your finances falls in line with your goals and ideals.

This article originally appeared on Policygenius.
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Money Manners: How to Talk About Money Without Being Awkward

Truth: Talking about money can be awkward. In fact, we’d much rather shoot the hay over politics and sex than discuss how much money we make. But, here’s the thing: we should talk about money – just as freely as anything else.

Indeed, it’s important to talk about money with your family and friends. Why? How else can you get to the root of your money woes and collectively solve them? To take out the A-W-K-W-A-R-D out of money talks, we exploring here are some money manners on general dos and don’ts to go by for talking about money:

Don’t: Pry

Nobody likes a nosy person. And, there are many instances where it’s better to mind your own money matters. For instance, asking a first date questions about his personal taxes or outright asking an acquaintance for a loan may not be the best idea. A good money manner to live by is remembering that you just never know someone’s situation and it’s better to stay away from prickly, sensitive topics with folks you don’t know well.

Do: Be the First to Share

Among my social circle, I’m typically the first person to talk about anything money-related, from deals I’ve snagged to how much money I’m making. By being transparent, it usually puts others at ease to do the same. Now, there’s definitely a fine line between over-sharing and being open. You don’t want to come off like someone who is recruiting unwilling participants to your pity party. If I don’t know someone well, one of the best money manners to employ I’ll steer away from heavier topics and stick to light-hearted conversation that can potentially lead to deeper dives and meaningful talks about moola.

Don’t: Be Judgy

Leave judgments at the door. As someone who is obsessed with frugality and saving money, I have a tendency to shake my head when I’m around spendthrifts. As you can imagine, this doesn’t win me many friends.

No matter what your money situation is, Instead of being judgy, come from a place of understanding and empathy. You just never know someone’s entire life story, or what they’re struggling with.

Do: Have a “Team Approach”

As a good friend of mine says, “A shared joy grows twice in size. A shared pain gets cut in half.” If you get to a place where someone is confiding in you with their money issues, help her drum up ideas on how to tackle the problem. Anytime you can help a family member or friend sort out money issues is a shared win.

Don’t: Bring Up Certain Topics in Front of Strangers

I’m quite embarrassed to admit this, but in my younger years, I had a good friend who owed me a couple hundred bucks. I remember reminding him every so often about this loan, even when other people were in earshot. Needless to say, it created tension between us. I learned the hard way how to be tactful when discussing money. Nowadays, when I meet someone new, I usually stick to discussing my own frugal wins.

Do: Find the Right Time and Place

Building upon what I discussed above, timing is everything. And so is the location — at least when it comes to talking about money. For example, you don’t want to ask your Uncle Henry to borrow money, or ask your friend about the money he owes you during a shindig. Instead, figure out the appropriate time and place to have these sorts of candid talks. For instance, a handful of people I know go on “money dates” with their partners. This is when they meet up on the regular to discuss the household budget, their retirement goals, and how to go about saving for that dream vacation.

Don’t: Turn It Into a Competition

Money is a tool, nothing more, nothing less. It’s certainly not a status symbol, and it’s not necessarily a sign of success. I know, I know, society taught us differently. But, try thinking about  money as a resource — where ideally you have enough flow (i.e., income or streams of revenue), systems and habits in place. This can help reduce financial stress.

When you discuss money with others, instead of getting competitive with how much money you all have, try to share in each other’s wins and failures.


15 Fun Things to Do This Winter That Won’t Ruin Your Budget

Shorter days, colder nights and…deeper pockets?

When the weather changes, so do our spending habits. But with a little planning and this list of 15 budget-friendly outdoor and indoor winter activities, it’s easy to feel warm and fuzzy about your finances – even when you’re out in the cold.

Go sledding.

Don’t have a sled? Make one using items you have on hand such as a yoga mat, shower curtain or even a trash bag.

Build a snowman.

Even if you’re no longer a kid or don’t have any of your own children, this is still a timeless activity that you can enjoy if it snows in your neck of the woods.

Enjoy a winter hike.

Hiking isn’t just for warm weather conditions. But, if you’re going on a long or treacherous winter hike, be sure to prepare adequately and travel in a group.

Go ice skating.

Some ice rinks offer free admission and only charge for skate rental. This will typically run you only a few dollars. But, if you’ve got your own pair of skates, then this can turn into a free winter activity.

Build a bonfire or firepit.

Invite a group of friends over for s’mores by the fire. Except for the cost to buy the ingredients for the s’mores, this is free. Another perk: you won’t even have to leave your house, thus saving you money on gas or public transportation.

Go star-gazing in your backyard.

One of my friends recently told me that star-gazing is her favorite winter pastime. So, invite some friends over and ask them to bring blankets for the perfect budget-friendly winter night. You can even throw in hot cocoa.

Check out a local festival.

You might be surprised to learn that local outdoor festivals exist in the winter and sometimes they’re free. This is a great opportunity to meet people if you recently moved into a new neighborhood.

Lend a helping hand. 

Volunteering your time or skills is a great way to give back without breaking the bank. Help a neighbor shovel snow or consider volunteering at a local festival (free food is often involved).

Try a new recipe.

If you’re craving comfort food this winter, why not try out a new recipe or two instead of ordering in? I recently stepped up my culinary skills and finally learned how to make hearty chicken soup at $1.50 per serving.

Host a potluck.

There’s no need to give up entertaining during the winter because of the cost, and hosting a potluck offers the perfect solution. If your friends prefer to contribute cash instead of their favorite dish, they can easily send you money through the Chime app.

Learn a skill on Netflix.

There’s nothing I love more than curling up on the couch with a plush blanket, popcorn and hot chocolate to binge-watch my Netflix shows. The best part? Many Netflix shows offer pearls of wisdom that can be applied to your everyday life and that includes your finances.

Schedule in some self-care.

There are many inexpensive ways to practice self-care such as taking a long bath, making a homemade face mask or even carving out some time to read a novel by your favorite author. Taking care of your mind and body year-round can have a positive impact on your financial health as well.

De-clutter your home.

You can either donate items to a local charity or consider selling items for cash. Sami Hageman of Eat Pray Budget has been selling unwanted stuff online using websites like Facebook Marketplace. The extra cash ($2,000 in the last two months alone) has helped her pay off tens of thousands of dollars in student loans. Hageman likes Facebook Marketplace because you get to screen who you do business with, plus you can either arrange for a pick-up at your front door or ship the items to the buyer.

Start a side hustle.

My favorite thing to do instead of spending money is to make more of it. There are many ways you can earn extra income that are easy to start from the comfort of your own home. You can learn to code, become a proofreader or even become a virtual assistant.

Get started on spring 2018 plans.

As the saying goes, the best part of winter is when it ends. That said, it’s never too early to take a look at your calendar of events for spring and prepare your budget accordingly.

Bonus Tips: Winter-Proof Your Budget

While you’re planning all kinds of budget-friendly winter activities, take a look at a few of our top tips to help keep even more money in your pocket as days grow increasingly longer and colder.

  • Beef up your emergency fund. For the past two winters, my husband and I have added a little extra padding to our emergency fund, and it always seems to come in handy. This year, we’ve already had to use some of it, with an unexpected expense of $250 to repair our furnace. However, having the extra money in the emergency fund gives us peace of mind whenever these winter-related expenses decide to pop up.
  • Unlink payment methods. This tip is especially important for my fellow winter homebodies. While staying indoors can sound like an inexpensive option, this isn’t always the case. Unlinking payment methods to Amazon and other online stores can help remove the temptation of overspending. We often think twice about making a purchase if we have to take out our wallets and manually enter our payment details.
  • Switch to debit. Another excellent way to prevent overspending is to use a debit card for online purchases. A debit card is similar to using cash in that you can only spend what you have in your bank account. However, sometimes it can be difficult to get a handle on your actual bank balance to ensure that you make the most informed financial decisions. Luckily there are bank accounts out there – like Chime – that are designed to help you track your finances with features like daily balance notifications and automatic savings.

Struggling With Money? Here’s Why You Need to Speak Up

It’s not easy to talk about money, especially when you’re not managing it well. In a society where appearances are sometimes more important than the truth, it’s easier to put on a good face — and maybe buy a shiny new car — than to admit that you’ve got money issues.

It doesn’t help that money is a taboo topic. According to a 2014 survey by the American Psychological Association, 32% of Americans feel uncomfortable talking about money with family. But even if you grew up thinking that talking about money is a no-no, here are 5 reasons why discussing your struggles is crucial to your financial future.

1. Vulnerability is empowering

The main reason it’s hard to talk about money problems is the fear of judgment. In some families or circles of friends, that fear is more than a mere possibility. But if you continue to act like nothing’s wrong, nothing will change.

Even if you don’t expect your family or friends to be super helpful, talk about it anyway. The act of sharing something you’re grappling with can give you the emotional strength to face it.

This process also forces you to be honest with yourself about your situation. Once you reach this point of self-honesty, it’s easier to take the next step and address it.

2. They might have some good advice

There may not be a financial advisor or money coach in your family or circle of friends, but that doesn’t mean your friends and family can’t offer guidance. Since they all deal with their personal finances on a daily basis just like you, they may have experiential knowledge that may be useful.

And, since money can be a tough topic to talk about, it’s likely that you don’t know what their experiences are until you ask. For example, if you’re considering bankruptcy, a family member or friend may be able to talk about a similar experience and how they got through it financially and emotionally.

Even if they don’t have experiences that they can draw upon, your family and friends may still know about some options that you haven’t considered yet. But again, you won’t know until you ask.

Along these lines, your inner circle may know of some good resources you can tap into. They may know a financial advisor or money coach that can help you out. Or perhaps they recently read a great book on managing finances, or know about some good websites that offer helpful advice on various personal finance topics.

3. They’re not perfect either

We’ve all made money mistakes.

Even if your family members or friends are in a good place financially, they may still be able to empathize with your situation based on past experiences. In some cases, that empathy can help you feel as if you’re not alone. It may also give you the confidence to get back on the right track.

4. They can keep you accountable

By reaching out for help, you may get more than you expect. For example, maybe someone in your inner circle will even volunteer to be your sounding board, aka accountability partner.

As you’re working toward improving your financial situation, having this partner can help you stay on track. For example, you can set up a time to chat with this person once a week to talk about how you’re doing. Or, if she has experience managing money, you can even ask her to take a look at your budget and help you see your blind spots.

5. They care about you

Above all, it’s important to understand that your family and friends care about you and want you to succeed.

This doesn’t mean that discussing money will be an easy conversation. It also doesn’t mean that your family and friends will have all the right answers. But it does mean that your loved ones will do anything they can to help you figure things out.

Next steps

Some of the best financial advice you can get comes from the people closest to you.

As you consider your situation, think about family members or friends that you feel most comfortable approaching to talk about your finances. And, if you don’t feel comfortable at all, push yourself a little. Once you get over that first conversation, your path forward will become a lot easier.


How to Avoid Falling Into the Money Comparison Trap

Everyone has one of those relatives. You know who I’m talking about—the ones who seem to be wildly successful in every area. Maybe your cousin just bought a house, or your sister just landed a high-paying job and just returned from an amazing vacation.

What’s even worse: these relatives aren’t afraid to talk about the latest and greatest around the holiday dinner table – as you quietly sit and listen. And then, as the conversation lulls, Uncle Bob turns to you and says, “so, what’s going on in your life now?”

It can be tough to resist comparing yourself to your more-successful relatives in these situations. Thankfully, there are a lot of ways you can get over this trap. Read on to learn more.

Luck is a bigger player than most people realize

Sure, your successful relative worked hard to get where she is. But, what people often don’t acknowledge is the role luck plays when it comes to getting ahead.

Your relative may have simply got lucky because she works in a well-paying field or lives in an area where real estate isn’t as expensive as the Northeast city you call home. Or, maybe your cousin Tom has never dealt with hardcore student loans because his parents paid for his college education. There are thousands of other ways your relatives may have ended up where they are today.

But, there’s good news too: you can also be lucky, maybe even in ways that your more-successful relatives aren’t. Maybe you have talents that they don’t have. Just think: you can use your talents to create a side hustle to earn extra money and improve your situation.

Move ahead financially

Good news! You’re not stuck where you are today. You can always improve your financial state.  

Remember when you graduated from the kids’ table to the adults’ table at holiday family gatherings? You can do the same thing and graduate to a better personal finance situation.

I’m not gonna lie and say it’ll happen overnight or it won’t take a lot of work. It’ll probably be quite the opposite, in fact. You’ll need to make sacrifices, get out of your comfort zone, and become more disciplined. Maybe it’ll even be harder for you than for others. But, you can do it.

Practice gratitude

You might have noticed a theme here. By being thankful for the things you do have, you can directly counteract the negativity surrounding your supposed “failures.” In fact, it’s been proven that showing gratitude can actually help your finances improve.

But how do you actually do this and make it stick?

For starters, it’s important to focus on rewiring your brain so you can instead see a more balanced side with the positive aspects of any given situation. This isn’t so easy because, as humans, we’re biologically hardwired to always recognize the negative side of things. To get around this, try keeping a daily gratitude journal and each day, write down three things that you’re grateful for and why.

It doesn’t have to be anything earth-shattering like “I was promoted to a director position.” It can literally be as simple as “I am grateful for the heat in my apartment” or “I am grateful I don’t have a serious health condition.” These are good things after all, right?

You can also practice gratitude rituals before regular daily occurrences. Saying a quick mental thanks every time you eat a meal or arrive home from work can go a long ways towards shifting your perspective from the negative to the positive.

Boast about your wins

Okay, so we aren’t advocating to actively compete with your relatives and rub your successes in their faces…but, a little boasting can help motivate you to continue to improve your situation.

Think about how great it will feel to show up at a family holiday gathering and say, “you know what? I’m debt-free now,” or “guess who just got a fantastic new job?”

Just remember, don’t become that person who won’t stop talking obsessively about his achievements. Let your relatives know how you’re faring financially, briefly bask in the glory, answer any of their questions, and move on to celebrate everyone else’s successes.

Wrapping up

Family holiday gatherings can be tough at this time of year, especially if you’re struggling to make ends meet and save money. But we also know that falling into the money comparison trap with your relatives can only serve to make this time of year more difficult.

To that end, if you remember these tips and stop comparing yourself to others, you can instead focus on more productive things—like moving ahead financially!


Friendsgiving Ideas on Any Budget

You’re not alone if you won’t be celebrating Thanksgiving with your own family.

Maybe you can’t afford to travel to be with your parents. Or, perhaps you have to work over the holiday. If you are flying solo without local family around, you may even decide to host the holiday at your house and create your own Friendsgiving tradition.

Being the host allows you to set the menu and invite who you want. You can spend as much as you’d like on your Friendsgiving dinner. At the same time, you may be limited by budgetary constraints. Fortunately for you, there are tons of Friendsgiving ideas for every budget that can make your event a memorable one. Take a look.

Low Budget ($20-40)

Unfortunately, it’s tough to have a free Friendsgiving dinner – unless, of course, you provide no food yourself. As the host with the most, this probably won’t go over well with your friends. But, you can host Friendsgiving for as little as $20 to $40. Here are some Friendgivings ideas for a low-cost event:


Why not make it a budget meal and ask your friends to pitch in? For example, ask one person to bring the stuffing, another to make the potatoes, and so on. In fact, if you supply only the turkey, gravy, and beverages, you can probably keep your costs to around $30 to $40, depending on how many people you invite.


Invite your friends by word of mouth, social media, or free e-invitations found on the Internet.


You can make your own Friendsgiving decorations using supplies you have at home or ask to borrow stuff from your friends. For example, use paper sacks to create placemats. Twigs and bits of greenery can also spruce things up, and a single pumpkin in the center of the table makes for a great centerpiece.


Play music you already have, or put a friend in charge of this. You can also forego music and simply enjoy each other’s company.

Moderate Budget ($40-100)

For those who have a little more to spend on Friendsgiving, you may be able to pay for everything yourself – if you budget wisely. Check out our suggestions:


With a little planning, you can buy a turkey on sale at your local grocery store. Do the same with the stuffing, potatoes, and other foods you plan to serve.

If any of your menu items are canned or boxed, you can also stock up ahead of time by purchasing these on sale or using coupons. You may also want to consider serving only flavored waters and other low-cost beverages instead of wine and beer, as alcohol can get expensive.


You can still use social media and free e-invites if you wish. However, you can also print them up from your home computer and mail them. Assuming you aren’t having a gathering of the masses, postage shouldn’t cost more than a few dollars and your guests will enjoy receiving mail that isn’t junk.


To create a festive Friendsgiving table while keeping costs down, try picking up a couple of yards of burlap to make placemats and a table runner. For a centerpiece, buy a pumpkin and some small gourds, and add some votives or other candles you have on hand. You can also collect and use pinecones from your yard or a nearby park. Artistically arrange everything and you will have a beautiful table your friends will admire.


You can sign up for the commercial-free version of Pandora for $5 to have some background music for your Friendsgiving. Or, you can place a friend in charge for free.

Go All Out ($100 and up)

Of course, when you have plenty of money, you can host Friendsgiving without having to worry about the cost. Here are some options:


You can relax and let someone else do the work if you choose. Have your meal catered or order all the fixings ahead of time from your local supermarket. All you’ll have to do is pick the meal up and set everything up before your guests arrive. Of course, if money is absolutely no issue, you can always take all your friends out for dinner and foot the bill for everyone. Just make sure you check ahead of time to ensure the eating establishment of your choice will be open and available. Many restaurants offer set price menus and seating times for Thanksgiving, so you may be better off making a reservation ahead of time.


Have fancy invitations printed from a local print shop, or design them yourself and have them shipped to you ahead of time. You can then mail them out and await the responses from your appreciative friends.


To decorate your home and dining room, you can buy decorations at a local craft store or even order a fancy centerpiece. Or, if you’re planning to eat out, talk to the restaurant ahead of time to plan for your ideal Friendsgiving table decorations.


If you want to go all out, you can hire a DJ. For a more low-key option, you can purchase special music that you can play on your laptop or home entertainment system.

If you’re dining out with your group of friends, ask the restaurant manager if the staff can arrange to play music while you all eat, drink, and share the holiday meal.

Give Thanks

As you can see, hosting a Friendsgiving celebration is a wonderful way to spend Thanksgiving. Whether you have a lot of money or just a little, you can refer to our Friendsgiving ideas for plenty of options to fit every budget.

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